I donât know about you, but I am over being told how to live my life â look around and there is plenty of evidence that a lot of people are making poor life decisions right now â and yet the advice just keeps coming doesnât it?
The truth is â in todayâs world â itâs quite hard to separate out what we really truly want to do with our life â from what society or our peers, our friends and family - even podcasts - think we should do with our life!
What this means is that we often feel buffeted about by life, we make decisions based on other peopleâs ideas of what success looks like and 5 years later, wonder why we donât feel quite as fabulous as we thought we might, given everything we have achievedÂ
Have you ever heard of  âCongruenceâ â I mean, outside of the maths class? M...
Good news eh? As adults we can get so bogged down in how âstressedâ or âbusyâ we are - for most of us, the last thing on our minds is how we can play more!
The thing is, we know itâs important for kids to play, but it is actually even more important for adults. This is because, often one of the reasons we are so anxious and wound up in the first place, is because we get stuck in our ways - as George Bernard Shaw famously said,
While our current beliefs, behaviours and mind-sets may be useful in some ways, they are certainly comforting and familiar - they often stop us from growing, adapting and unlocking our potential. Sadly, they can be the main cause of a lot of our anxiety, lack of energy and our feeling of being stuck and wonky
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This is pretty much a regular scenario now in homes across the world ...
Overwhelm. The great resignation. We are leaving sour relationships, unfulfilling jobs, toxic work environments in our millions. Left, right and centre, over the last 18 months an overarching theme of overwhelm is leading us to reflect, reconsider, and re-evaluate our lives
We are picking different choices in an attempt to rid ourselves of this feeling of overwhelm â and often the choices we start with are the obvious ones â new job, new partner, new routine, (new laptop!)
What we often donât start with, when we feel so overwhelmed â is building our mental strength
Which is ironic really â because actually â when we start our new job, our new relationship, our new routine â wouldnât we want to start from a position of mental strength?
Because if we donât â guess what â in 6 months time, that feeling of overwhelm might just still be there...
We cut carbs, we spend over $350 per month on our appearance, we nail our morning beauty routine, we spend hours in the gym perfecting the best workout for a great butt
In fact, when we want to make ourselves attractive, pretty much all of us tend to spend our time and money on our appearance without realising that the key thing which makes us attractive â and I mean really attractive â is self-confidence
They are magnetic, we are drawn to them; we want to be their friend, to talk to them; and go out with them. Confidence lures people in and reflects our true nature. If we are dull and dreary, people will avoid us. If we are bright and vibrant, people will want to be around us. Itâs that natural spotlight
Research confirms that someone who chooses to be confident has a real sense of who they are, what they bring and what they offer. They come into relationships âwholeâ, n...
...we increasingly understand that what makes us not only successful, but also happy in life - is having a great mind-set
The thing is â look around, from world-class athletes, to global influencers, to our own friends and family â what with enforced isolation, shutdowns, restricted access, home-schooling and business closures â even the most upbeat of us can fall into the depths of stress, anxiety, loneliness and deep uncertainty
Actually â it is possible â itâs possible for any of us to approach each day with energy and motivation, confident that whatever is thrown our way, we can - not just survive, but thrive
We donât just know this, we live it â during lockdown we created Progressfullâ˘, a company designed to unlock personal progress and professional potential
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The hard work and dedication has paid off. We are so proud, so inspired, so motivated. We know we will now finally be able to implement our own creative ideas, we know we can now set our own challenging targets and get the stuff done, we know needs to get done. We know how to drive the growth, we know our teams and our business deserve. We know, we know, we know. Yes!  We finally get to prove it! Â
Our hearts and brains overflow with the potential we see around us, in our teams, our brand and in our own ability to make great things happen
Finally we get to do the things which other leaders before us, failed to get done
When the first few promotions come, we excitedly check the increase in our bank account. We 'accept' the invitations to the âimportant meetings,â previously out of our pay grade. We lean forward in our chairs, reli...
One of the key ideas behind Progressfull⢠is that we all have extraordinary potential, we all have capabilities beyond our wildest dreams. And with the right insights, frameworks and tools we can all unlock our infinite potential and enjoy living unique lives, filled with meaning, purpose and progress
We are also aware that, despite external so-called success, nearly all of us experience deep fears that 'we are not enough' at some point, or even most of our lives. Some examples of how this feeling can be disguised are; relentless ambition, jealousy, or a feeling of shame at not being lovable - this can often be triggered when we compare ourselves to others
It is for this reason that we have created a brand âProgressfullâ˘", rather than taking the approach of using one person's name ie âErin Example, or Sam Sample", which is the norm these days
We know that in reality, all the answers to the questions of how to progress and live a bett...
Never has the demand for us all to Show Up as the best version of ourselves been greater
Together we have the talent, we have the knowledge and we have the potential. We can discover new ways of doing things, we can develop new businesses and design new products, we can create positive change. And yet...
Why do so very many of us, at some point in our lives, suffer from the fear of not being good enough? Which means, we donât start, we donât try, we donât finish, we give up. We donât Show Up
For some of us, this so-called normal feeling of not being good enough only hits us on certain days, when nothing we do feels good enough. We kind of hate ourselves for a bit, pour ourselves a glass of wine or take it out on our loved ones, go to bed angry and wake up kind of ready for a new start the next dayÂ
For those people this feeling of ânot good enough-nessâ seems to pass and doesnât...
Success is rarely instant - from Simone Biles to leading edge scientists, from Tom Daley to tech founders we are increasingly aware that mental strength is the real secret sauce of success
In fact, in all walks of life - from start-up founders to chefs to musicians - when we look at successful people, we are fascinated to learn how they do what they do - what their secret for success is
Being an Olympian not only requires immense physical talent but also an incredible amount of psychological control - resilience and determination help them bounce back from defeat and keep on keeping on. From Tom Daley - the British diver who competed in three prior Olympic games and only recently won his first ever Olympic gold medal in Tokyo, to Andrew Hoy - the Australian equestrian eventer who ...
The relentless uncertainty, the daily "can we, can't we, shall we, shan't we" of mask-wearing, social meet-ups and staycations, has now writhed it's way into our morning coffee-catch ups and our message feeds. The snake of uncertainty brings with it small, sneaking, daily confrontations with tricky choices, the relentless drip, drip, drip of new decisions, draining our energy and distracting our focus
With every glimmer of fun and freedom, we now peer into the shadows, calculating the risks and assessing the new behaviours to adopt. To keep safe, to keep strong. We have swapped worrying about 'if our job has enough purpose' for 'will I still have a job' and 'how do I keep myself and my family safe'. The statistics collaborate with our instinctive refocus on the basics of survival - whether looking at the economy, the local area R number, or the 30% of Corona survivors who are now likely to suffer PTSD