Multiple studies show that playfulness in adults is not only extremely beneficial to our physical and mental health, it is also key for optimal functioning. Studies have found that play relieves stress, improves brain function, boosts creativity, increases and improves connections with others, and to top it all, increases our energy levels. These benefits extend beyond ourselves to our loved ones as we are playful in our relationships. Neuroscience supports the old theory that laughter really is the best medicine
Sounds crazy eh? It's true, for many of us, the first thing we think about when we wake up in the morning is how much we have to do that day, the last thing on our minds is how important it is for us to find time to playÂ
It's such an unusual idea, to think about the importance of being playful for us as adults, we thought we would share with you some of the ways you can benefit from Being Playful
Look around and you will see a lot us have a bad habit of worrying. The thing is, we think worrying is a normal - even healthy response - to our volatile world. Actually, this is not the case. We can swap this restricting habit of worrying with releasing beliefs, behaviours and m...
Guess this is why that of the 5 Progressfull Principles, the one which people often find the most appealing, is Being Playful. The very idea that being playful is something which successful, evolved, high performers incorporate into their life is refreshingly new and a real relief, a lot of our clients tell us
As the philosopher Elbert Hubbard once said,
This is because in todayâs world of constant change, hyper-visibility and endless choices, many of us end up agonizing over even the tiniest decisions. We can spend hours re-writing emails, overthinking comments, ruminating on conversations - believing that the endless hard work of perfecting every detail of every aspect of our lives is the route to success and therefore the good life
Hubbard reminds us that time is a precious gift we canât get...
Are you pursuing your personal interests and passions? Are you chasing your professional ambitions? Lifelong learning gives us a great sense of purpose, fulfillment and satisfaction, at work, at home â in our whole life. Itâs really all about connecting with our innate curiosity and childlike willingness to âhave a play, have a goâ â learn something new
But in reality, most of us adults definitely donât have a lifestyle which makes learning easy, so we miss out on all the progress, the passion, and fulfilment and can end up feeling stuck
Stuck because in truth we humans have a natural drive for curiosity â to learn, to explore, to play, and to grow. So if we arenât learning, we arenât making progress â we feel like we are stressed, stuck and stagnating â wasting our potential
Learning new stuff, new ideas, new skills, encourages us to improve our o...
The thing is, what if we are missing out on one of the most important secrets to living a long and happy life? Being Playful is about building your ability to enjoy life, and its adventures. Itâs about regaining a childlike curiosity, determination and wonder at what is possible, together with a belief in your ability to thrive and bounce back from adversity
At home, at work, in our whole life - as a partner, a parent, a team-player, a friend, a leader, an enthusiast for a particular sport or hobby. Loo...
Have you ever stopped to think about the impact of this on your life, and not just your own life, also that of you children and loved ones? How much fun and joy we miss out on, because we have become 'stuck' - forgetting the joys of being playful, flexible, adaptable
Being Playful is often a huge mind-set shift for people. We tend to be more restricted by our past experiences, than being optimistic about our future because we donât see ourselves as a work in progress. Our brain is most agile when we approach life seeing ourselves as a work in progress
Choosing to be optimistic is something that all of us can benefit from, it adds a childlike curiosity, a wonder and...
As adults we can get so bogged down in how âstressed about doing things perfectlyâ or âbusyâ we are - for most of us, the last thing on our minds is thinking about how we can do things differently!
The thing is, we know itâs important for kids to try different things â different toys, different activities, different foods, but it is actually even more important for adults to try different approaches. This is because, often one of the reasons we may be so anxious and wound up in the first place, is because we get stuck in our ways - as George Bernard Shaw famously said,Â
While our current beliefs, behaviours and mind-sets may be useful in some ways, they are certainly comforting and familiar - they often stop us from growing, adapting and unlocking our potential. Sadly, they can be the main cause of a lot of our anxiety, lack of energy and our feeling of being stuck and wonky
An often unknown solution f...
Itâs true that weâre living in a world thatâs more conducive to anxiety than playfulness. In the endless to-do list of being an adult, play really does feel like a waste of time. We burn ourselves out with anxieties, worries and tasks we should or have to do, rarely believing we have time or energy for activities we actually want to doÂ
The thing is, we know itâs important for kids to play, but it is actually even more important for adults. This is because, often one of the reasons we are so anxious and wound up in the first place, is because we struggle to adapt to all the change around us, we get stuck in our ways - as George Bernard Shaw famously said,Â
While our current beliefs, behaviours, and mind-sets may be useful in some way...
â the ocean backdrop so hypnotic with itâs crashing waves, the cliffs so mesmerising it was hard to see the iconic outdoor theatre
And yet â there in full sight was the Minack theatre, the extraordinary legacy of Rowena Cade. The story of how this rocky Cornish headland transformed into a world-famous theatre is a story of one womanâs creative vision, fearless dedication, and sheer hard graft
Rowena Cade was born in 1893 and moved to Cornwall where she built her home, Minack house on the Minack headland, following World War 1 and the death of her father
Rowena was passionate about theatre and offered her garden to a local production company who wanted to stage Shakespeareâs âThe Tempestâ. To help them, she decided to create a stage and somewhere for people to sit. What is incredible, is that Rowena didnât use heavy machinery to create the seating area and the stage, she and her gardener - Billy Rawlings - used hand tools and...
They would say that sometimes, when the going gets tough, the best thing we can do is lighten up and play a little!
I don't know about you, but it's still all a bit much isn't it?  This time of year is always a bit tricky, often with cold, flat grey mornings, the festivities over, New Years resolutions less of an exciting new start to a new you and now either in the bin or proving a bit more of a grind than most of us optimistically signed up to on the 1st of January - and don't let's get started on 'the Covid' as the postman refers to the unrepentant global disruptor which seems to ruthlessly bring heartbreaking tragedy on one hand or a mild cough on the other. For some of us, it's hard to find a chink of light when we gaze uncertainly out of our windows each morning
What both Roald Dahl and Charles Darwin would recommend is, the ultimate rebellion; the real disruptive solution when faced with so much...