We find this shocking, and frankly heart-breakingly wasteful
Many of us create private, internal visons for who we want to be, how we want to live and what we want to achieve ā at work, at home, in our whole life, yet choose, sometimes consciously but mostly not, to remain unseeing in situations where in order to achieve our vision. We could know, and should know, but donāt know. Because we believeĀ it makes us feel better not to know
And so our unique vision for what a great life would look like fades into ānormalā, into āfineā into āIām good, thanksā ā and a weak smile. We know we could learn new skills at work, but donāt. We know we could improve our communication skills to benefit all our relationships, especially those with our loved ones. But donāt. We know to be happier, better people - we could let go of internal baggage. But donāt. We know we could learn new skills in...